Hantaran, from my own definition is something related to malay custom or is it?? Because most of current malay wedding custom is actually comes from Hindu's custom. They have dowry and those gifts on the silver plates. So, honestly if you ask me, I'm not sure how 'hantaran' comes into our wedding's picture, but we just follow the flow aren't we?

For a guy, well I do think I speak for millions of guys out there, the 'hantaran' is not a crucial part of our wedding or our big day. We don't really give a damn if suddenly 'hantaran' is not anymore part of the malay wedding custom. Maybe we would gleefully accept it!! But as this hazardous change is totally impossible, now we gonna speak how 'hantaran' fits in our life, men that were about to marry his loved ones.

We might want to buy expensive things or on cotrary as frugal as we could. For me, personally 'Hantaran' is something that I need. It might be something that I've been carving for so long, or simply something that I need to use. Do you wanna know what's inside my head right now for my Hantaran? Here is the list ;

1) Sport shoe - one that can be worn for my sepak takraw and leisure.
2) Tennis shoe - coz the one I've been using slowly worn out
3) Sandal - My adidas sandal has been living his full life with me for the past 3++ years
4) Helmet - Since I ride my new FZ150, I don't really have a decent helmet for the fast wind when I ride my bike fast
5) raincoat - Hahaha..the one I have now is not really water resistant anymore. Why not put it inside the list?? Plus it's rainy season now.
6) External Hard disk (preferably 1TB and above) - well, have been wanting to buy one of these as my pictures are getting more and more and consuming my 40GB hdisk of my company laptop. For the time being, I'm using the courtesy of my housemate to store my digital data inside his. Huhu..
7) Jeans - I bought my new one only twice. The first jeans when I was 17 and another one 4years ago from the uptown Danau Kota when I was a streamyx call center personnel. Other than that, I think I bought a bundle one that costs Rm10, I thinkI've bought 2 of them.
8) A cap maybe. I never have a decent cap. I want one so bad now as I'm playing tennis now. Hehehe.
9) Sweater/wind breaker - so want the 3lines adidas one. I bought mine, cheetah when I was in my first year in UPM. That's 8 years ago. Red one and I've been using it since now. I've also bought around 5 more bundle. 1 was torned out because of an accident. The rest have been used every now and then.

Hmm..see. So far these are my 'hantaran'. As we have discussed to have 7 - 9 for our hantaran. Hehehe..But I think the helmet and the raincoat need to be omitted. They can be replaced with sweets and chocolates..Hehehe..

Fancy things like perfume, watch, I don't really need them. I always forget to spray some perfume when I went out. I've been blessed with odourless body thanks to Allah. So, a roll of my deodorant to prevent sweaty armpit should make my day with ease.

Hmm..how much would the list costs???

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"Kawan ko yg mn ek...ko suke la yg ramah2 ek..yela aku x ramah kn"

Hee..Cembam meseg malam tadi. Aku pergi majlis doa selamat pembukaan Cafe Island Red Cafe dua kawn aku sebagai Join Venture dgn owner kedai tu. Bertungkus lumus diorg berdua 2-3 bulan ni utk setup kedai tu. Akhirnya kedai tu akn dibuka sabtu ni kat Percint 15 Putrajaya.

Masa aku makan2, GF Am pn smpi dengan baju kebaya dia. Am mmg sibuk habis la layan org2 kuat IRC and tetamu2 yg lain. So Am suh GF dia, Diana dok semeja ngn kitorg. Aku ni jenis yg cuba comfortkan org ngan ajak sembg2 skit. And it turned up Diana ni pn ramah juga. Sembang2 la jugak ngan kitorg pasal dia gi kedah apa sume.

SO sbnrya senangn kalau awek or wife kita jenis pndi bawak diri..ramah skit2 ngan sapa2 je. Jadi Am tu pn tkyah la nk risaukan awek dia boring ke apa ke. Aku sll meseg keramahan awek2 org lain ni kat CEmbam sbgi cara aku nk smpikan yg dia patut camtu. Memang la CEmbam pendiam n aku suka dia cmtu..Tp skang dia byk gak bercakap ngan aku..mknanya dia buleh la bersembg. Just sesuaikan diri tu kot yg sukar skit.

Harapnya bila dh jadi cikgu ni dia lg pandai bergaul la. Jadi kalau bawak mana2 event bercampur ngan isteri kawan2, tunang kawan2, GF kawan2 tu dia leh bawak diri. Aku pn tak risau dia keburingan ke apa..NAk dia enjoy skali dengan apa shja event aku gi. Kan ke best???

So cara aku, aku meseg la yg aku tgh makan..temankan GF kawan ni..Tp dia ok..peramah dgn harapan dia leh catch up la cara aku didik dia..=]. Harapnya catchup la.

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Berbalas mesej ngan Cembam smlm. Cembam tnya kot2 Fikri (tunang adik aku) kena ngorat kat sekolah ngan anak murid dia. Aku cakap..tak mungkin la Fik tergugat sbb dia crazily in love ngan adik aku..huhu..so then start la meseg2 jenis yg aku nyampah..tp aku layan je.

Cembam : ko x crazy luv kat aku ke?
Aku : Ko rasa? ko crazy luv x kat aku?hahaha
Cembam : Aku tny dulu..ko jawab la dulu
Aku : Kan dh jawab tu (upanya tak jawab..ahaha) xtau..xpasti
Cembam : teruknya..ada lak tak tau n tak pasti
Aku : Aik? senyap plak?
Cembam : Abis, watpe nk kawin kalau tak tau n tak pasti
Aku : aku dh bg jawapan. ko camne?
Cembam : tak guna gak jawab..ko pun tak cintakan aku
Aku : Tgok..pndai kondem ek. Ko x jwb lg. Ko crazily in love ke ngan aku?
Cembam : aku tak crazy..aku waras lagi
Aku : Ceh, lg ntah pape jawapan
Cembam : so what??ko pn tak tau n tak pasti cinta kat aku pn kan?
Aku : ntah pape la ko ni..cuba cek balik soalan asal dia td apa? Tu yg menyampah lyan soalan2 camni
Cembam : Emmm..nape? salah faham ke..aku xdak mood la..aku xnak cari pasal nnt len jadi
Aku : Dh tu..ko la cari pasal. Ntah pape. Pndi tnya. Tp tak jawab. tak jawab camne nk dpt explanation jwpn aku..ceh!
Cembam : ko nk explain ape...sila jawab b4 aku pk -ve
Aku : Haha...malas nk jawab..ko pn x jawab

And pagi ni Cembam tak call bngunkan aku subuh cam biasa. Mlm tadi pn aku tak meseg dia. Saja je tggu dia meseg. Aku mmg kalau tetiba salah faham benda remeh mengarut ni malas aku n pujuk ke apa..kalau mmg salah aku takpe. Ni, dia tak paham jawapan ngan soalan gi marah kata tak chenta lak. Klakar tol..bior kan dia..ahaha.

tnya soalan samada aku crazily in love with her. Aku jawab la tak pasti. Crazily ok..Aku byk kali putus..takde harap la nk crazy habes cintakan someone. Kalau tetiba Cembam tk nak kawin ngan aku n putuskan hubungan kata cam dh tak perlukan laki (mcm kadang2 dia timbulkan isu ni)..takdenya aku nk berlapar nangis2..merayu gila babi..jatuh sakit atau wat mende bodoh sbb crazily in love with Cembam.

Love and crazily love tu lain. I'm the first one. Maybe dh kawin baru try crazily tu. Tp Cembam dpt jawapan meseg aku smlm tetiba kata aku tak chenta plak. Ceh..tu yg aku malas nk jawab soalan2 jenis cmni dr dia. Sll aku suh dia jawab dulu..kalu dia tak jawab mmg aku tk jawab. Kali ni saja tgok respon dia bila aku jawab dulu. Mmg betul la sangkaan..jadi camtu...ahaha..apa daa.

Kita tgok bila dia nk msg aku blik. Huhu..malas nk pujuk.

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Hmm...Dah ada moto baru ni, kena la bayar RM203 sebulan plak. Jadi expense dh bertambah 200 sebulan. Bermakna nk simpan 1K sebulan dh terbantut 200 plak. Bulan ni lak ada utang kredit kad 200..hmm..hutang raket RM50..hmm. Then mak cabut gigi 100. Haa..kalau ditolak sume..tggl baper.

Alang2 ckit je dpt menyimpan ni..aku teruskan niat nk melawat Cembam minggu depan time cuti 3 hari sempena Wesak. So far mmg ON. Cembam pn cuti ari ahad tu..Ok lah sangat dh. Tapi sbb cuti 3 hari, cembam nak balik kmpung. Kira bukan lepak kemaman mcm first plan lah.

Nnt nk jln2 pn kena bawak adik dia lah. Nk berdua kat tmpt org aku kekok la plak. Bukan la mksud selama ni wat jahat berdua..takde wat pa pun..tp bila kat tmpt sendiri...kmpung lak tu..takut ada yg pandang serong. SO, prevention is better than cure la kan.

Aku lak tadi beli beg dr forumer. Aku mmg takde beg kamera yg proper..aku sumbat je dlm beg laptop aku yg serbaguna habess ni..takut lak rosak nnt. So aku deal la semurah mungkin ngan forumer. Td dpt la beg rega 400 dengan rega 250...so amek la. Bila bgtu Cembam dia kata jgn merungut2 takde duit sudah...huhu

Dia tak tau lagi aku beli perfume utk dia...eehehhe...

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Hari ni skip lunch. Ada roti gardenia yg beli 2 malam lepas. Dh beli peanut butter..better abihkan roti tu..kalau tak membazir. Bawak pergi ofis. Makan kat ofis. Tu yg skip lunch tu.

Bila skip lunch bermkna aku save lg dlm 6 ringgit. Wpun kecil, tp kesannya..duit sara diri aku akan lebih berpotensi utk cukup smpi akhir bulan. Bila cukup..tkyah la aku kuarkan duit lain yg mungkin akan ganggu duit simpnn kawin aku. Huhu..Ni jugak berfungsi utk perbelanjaan lain. Kot jumpa klien cam mlm ni diorg ajak karoke. Aku nk gak berhibur..dlm ms yg sama aku jga r/ship dgn client..haaa

Tgh berfikir2 nk beli moto baru..hmmm..bukan apa. Bila dipikirkn aku guna moto lebih kerap dr keta..yelah nk pergi keje kan..tknak mengharung jem yg menyebelkan silet. Jd sptutnya moto kena la dlm tip top condition sbb digunkn sll. Membabitkn nyawa. Skang benaffey aku tu cam dh terkujat2 atas trek..ehehe. Cam tak stabil. Kot suatu ptg di tgh2 kereta..aku terhumban sbb fork patah ke apa..camne? nk repair byk gak mkn duit..tu rasa nk beli moto lain tu.

beli kena ikut kemampuan plak. Tknak gunakan sgt saving susah pyah aku tu. kalau ikut kemahuan mestilah targetnya lain..hmm hmmm.

DH kurus kot aku skang..ke sama je..hehehe..byk kali dh skip lunch ni. Balik kadg makan goreng pisang, takpun maggie. Hmmm..betapa aku giat dan berdedikasi utk kawin ni. Haa..salahkah kalau aku sakit hati bila kahwin nnt kena makan luar dan tak dilayan slpas apa yg aku harungi utk mengecapi dan memasuki alam perkahwinan tu?? berbaloi kah??

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