Yep...sebulan dah Xiyad Asytar hari ni. Rasa macam lama dah jaga...tapi baru sebulan upanya..ekekekkee. Dan Alhamdulillah sebulan dah berjaya jaga Cembam dan Xiyad sorang2 berpantang kat KL ni. Walaupun mulanya rasa tak sedap nak amek dari kampung, tapi keputusan tu ternyata yang terbaik la bagi aku. Tukar kan lampin Xiyad tiap hari, tiap malam dan tiap pagi bila tengah2 pagi buta tu dia nangis samada mintak susu or lampin. Dua...

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Xiyad Asytar Hasnul Efendi.... Hehehe..Tu kalau ikut Initial tu jadi XAHE. Hmm..cara gak. Ekekeke. Hari ni masuk hari ke 4 aku jadi seorang ayah. Kadang macam percaya, kadang tetiba rasa cam mimpi. Bila tengok sekujur kecil tubuh Xiyad tu, dengan tangan dua2 terbuka gaya orang bina badan nak tunjuk bicep, kaki plak terkangkang macam huruf n, macam-macam perasaan timbul. Orang kata kalau anak orang, ko jenis minat budak memang...

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Today was the first time I handled Xiyad for his 2nd bathing time. Yesterday my MIL was the one doing it while I was away to bury Xiyad's Uri. Xiyad was shrieking and crying the whole bathing process. Cembam was assisting me. It's like knowledge transfer process to her as well. Cembam cannot handle the cry. She feels so pity to him. So I...

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It's the beginning of the 3rd day for Xiyad, trying to open his senses to his surrounding, opening his sepet eyes every now and then trying to grasp what is actually happening around him. Those touches that sometimes feel so cold, so warm, so itchy and those fragrances which keep on changing, those sounds which sometimes so loud, so high pitch and those warm presence that makes him calm. Everytime I look at him, I keep on wondering...

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Okeh..sambungan journal kelahiran anak sulung kami =]. Bila epidural tu dah abes and katanya tak tambah..mmg cuak la si Cembam. Aku pn dok imagine dari 5,6 cm tak rasa pape skali dh nk bersalin ni baru rasa..mak haiii..menggelejat la Cembam weh. Tapi bila ada sorang lagi misi masuk dia kata "kena tambah"..lega kami. Tp berpandangan le juga....

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First of all, aku nak ucapkan terima kasih pada semua rakan2 with all your warm wishes pada kami bertiga, yang selama ni mendokan kesejahteraan kami. Kami sekeluarga sangat-sangat menghargainya. Sehingga ke Hari Rabu lepas, Cembam takde mengadu rasa sakit perut nk beranak. Malah contraction tu rasa camne pn kami tak berapa pasti. Tapi kami ikut kata orang kalau perut tegang tu le contraction. Dan disebabkan Cembam rileks je, pagi...

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Cembam is now entering her 34th weeks of pregnancy. We have bought some pairs of newborn baby outfits. I think less than 10 pieces. Lots of advices from my friends saying that we don't really need the newborn outfits that many because at most they are just gonna be usable for 3 weeks before it 'shrink' out. Well, if you ask me..I would just wanna borrow some from my sisters. But hey, they said "anak pertama ni beli la buat pakai...

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  Dah nak masuk 6 bulan dah Cembam nye kandungan. Alhamdulillah takde benda2 tak elok yang menimpa. Cembam pn OK je. Tak byk kerenah morning sickness..takde nak loya-loya muntah2 tak larat makan apa sume. Normal je. Loya2 yang biasa je. Syukur sangat sebab dimudahkan utk first experience kami ni. Cembam masih boleh nak masakkan utk aku...

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Last time I went to visit my parents, I don't have to ask Nyai to help my mom, stay at the kitchen and lend a hand doing anything during the cooking time or whatsoever. I purposely got into the living room leaving her behind and she was assisting my mom and my sister to prepare the meal. Well, I don't really ask her or want her to cook for us. Mom has already got her hands on the frying pan and I just hope she stays there and...

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I love you and you only..let's get married and we will live our life as happy as we could till we die. Just you and me..the two of us. Alalalala sweet je dengar yeee?? Romantik nyeee...kan? tu ke apa yang korang fikirkan? Sayangnye ungkapan ni terlalu naif adik-adik yeee. Sebab apa? Sebab bila kau berkahwin dengan someone..ko bukan hanya 'kawin' dengan pasangan ko je. Kau masuk dalam famili pasangan kau..It's not just about you...

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Buatkan air utk husband nampak macam remeh...tapi seremeh2 benda tu, ada satu signifikasi yang besar dalam asam garam dunia berumahtangga ni. Hanya kerana secangkir kopi, bisa menentukan mood dan suasana dia rumah pada hari itu. Cembam selalu buatkan air utk aku. Memang best. Dia sll akan tanya dulu nak air apa. Sebab Cembam tak minum kopi...

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Been a while since my last post here =]. I write a lot at my main blog anyway. It's almost midnight and I'm watching a korean movie "Once Upon a Time in High-school". Marriage life is somewhat doing the routine things and making sure you won't get bored to see each other for another years ahead. Being how you were during your couple-stage seems to be a determining factor on how you would continue your love life once married. But...

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Lama tak menulis di sini. Last sekali Ogos? Pergh..lama gak tu. Bila aku bukak blog ni malam ni, aku perasan yang hari ni adalah genap 10 bulan kami berkahwin. Hehehehe. Cepat juga masa berlalu. Yelah, adik aku pun dah ada anak, anak buah pertama aku. Kami ni belum lagi. Maklumla duduk berjauhan. Aku dan wife sudah duduk bwah satu bumbung...

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